When knowing about it more, it is, psychologically, a neurological process of interpretation and observation which needs to be developed so as not be in false ideas, misapprehension, wrong impression, daydreams or fantasies, but be a true believer in the realities of life and its associated situations or results. It would thus lead us towards the realism of life to have fixed our vision not on the basis of just fantastic notions, but based on knowledge and right perception about the things that are actually experienced or seen in our everyday lives.
One of the most important characteristics of a personwho is interested to perceive things or others properly must be that he must understand himself well. That means know yourself well to know others well. As it goes in this poetic way of an Urdupoet,” Padi jab Apne Gunaho par Nazar, toh Nigah mai Koi Bura Na Raha.” The words to that effect are: when I looked into my sins, I found no other sinner but me. This leads one to understand oneself by means of self-appraisal. In this way, self-appraisal is the basic requirement of building one’s personality. If you become as it should be in terms of your personality, it would enable you to see others in an accurate manner, not with a mixture of your own likes or dislikes or favoring or disfavoring on the basis of just your own opinions and interpretations.
The thing that's extremely important not to adopt at all, rather, it is far better to avoid it rather than considering it to accept even once in a while. That is, avoid forming self opinion about any person or situation without taking into considerationthe related factors or all that is important or needed. Opinion in itself is your feelings and thoughts about somebody or something – rather than a fact. Then, it must be understood that the thought is thought and the fact is fact. How thoughts are true in terms of reality or the fact, because the thought is just thought, but the fact is not thought but the reality and the occurrence. This leads us to read the person or situations properly before forming any opinion.
It is appropriate to mention that If you want to be perceived accurately, then you should be fair in all that you do and deal with others while making sure there is no contradiction between your words and deeds and representing your honest image in the sight of others at all times. Thus, the role that you have in your life causes you to receive the same social impression. that is, as you perform, so you're seen and known among people.
K. A. Fareed (Fareed Siddiqui)
Writer, Trainer, Author, Software Developer
BBA, MBA-Finance, MPhil-Financial Management, (PhD-Management)
Module 1 - Leadership and Management ILM – UK
Individual Member of Institute of Management Consultants of India